I think it'll be interesting (to me at least) to see what in the world I come up with!
Thursday, December 30, 2010
Project 365???
I think it'll be interesting (to me at least) to see what in the world I come up with!
Sunday, December 19, 2010
Happy Aniversary to Mr. Mel!
Dear That Dude,
One year ago we took the biggest (conscious) leap of our lives. This year hasn't been all rainbows and butterflies, but I wouldn't trade any of our experiences for anything in the world.
I'm sorry that I didn't live up to my promise of you having your Camaro by the end of our first year, but (I think) what I DID give you is much better!
You are more than deserving of my respect and you have shown me that over and over in both the awesome and the difficult moments.
Thank you for helping me to learn more about you as a person, the meaning of true love, and so much about myself (and thank you for your patience along the way!)
I look forward to the many happy years ahead of us.
I love you F+1.
-Mel
P.S. - We made it through the first year! Where are all of the haters and naysayers now?!
Tuesday, November 9, 2010
I forgot...
...my cell phone charger...
...Kotex (just got my first postnatal period)...
...my adapter for my breast pump!
Not sure where my head was at this morning, but I just want to turn around and go back home!!
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Sunday, October 24, 2010
I Couldn't Have Said it Better Myself!
-St. Augustine
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Monday, October 18, 2010
Laundry Help
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Tuesday, September 28, 2010
Sleepy Baby
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Thursday, August 26, 2010
Wednesday, August 25, 2010
The First of Our Maternity Photos is In!!
Our awesome photographer posted this pic on Facebook. I absolutely love it and can't wait to see the rest!! We LOVE you Jenn!
Overload of Love
I am so blessed by my church family! They have helped to ease my anxiety about the changes that are about to come. CityLight Church, That Dude and I are so grateful for you!!
Monday, August 23, 2010
Not Me! Monday
I did NOT eat 4 cinnamon donuts and a white powdered one in 3 days. I also DIDN'T have chocolate chip cookies AND homemade chocolate cake at my babyshower yesterday! I have optimal eating habits and would NEVER consume that much sugar in such a short time!
What HAVEN'T you done lately?
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Thursday, August 19, 2010
Wednesday, August 18, 2010
My 1st Babyshower
That Dude has some awesome (just like family) friends who put together a small babyshower for us recently. We love you guys and can't thank you enough!
3rd Trimester Sleepiness
Yup... That's how I feel at work everyday lately. I think it's almost time for Chocolate Chip to make his appearance!
Monday, August 16, 2010
Monday Morning Musing
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Friday, August 13, 2010
How I Know That It's Almost Time
Monday, August 2, 2010
Green Bunting
Imagine my surprise when I arrived home from a friend's house and I had a package waiting for me. I had recently bought some stuff on eBay, but I was certain that it was too soon for that. I opened it and was pleasantly surprised to find:
Yay! Chocolate Chip will be both warm AND cute this Winter!
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Wednesday, July 21, 2010
Jul 12 12:55am
I feel like I'm finally beginning to understand him better. I feel like we're finally connecting on a deeper level. I want that to continue. I wish I could get into is head sometimes though.
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Monday, July 5, 2010
Just Waiting
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Wednesday, June 9, 2010
Growing Steadily...
Yup, there is DEFINITELY a healthy baby growing steadily inside of me!
18 Weeks
20 Weeks
23 Weeks (My 27th b'day!)
25 Weeks
Mami & Papi can't wait to meet you baby!
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Tuesday, May 11, 2010
April 24
I felt like a terrible daughter when I ruined my mom's morning by crying the whole time she visit with me in the hospital. Why do I always have to be such a dramatic cause for worry? And now I'm waiting for the sucky wife of the year award since I can barely give my husband any affection. I'm scared to speak because I know it'll lead to petty and unnecessary bickering.
I'm tired of feeling this way and I know I need help but I feel like I have to carry everyone else right now and just don't know when there will be a moment for me. Even my free moments are dedicated to making lists and researching parenting stuff. And God knows there won't be much free time AFTER I give birth!
How do people live? Like really live? Some people just seem to have it all figured out and know how to keep it all together. What's the big secret? I want in!
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Monday, April 12, 2010
Emotional Rollercoaster
If you've read my last few posts you might think that That Dude and I are having problems, well, I assure you that we're fine! We are more in love (most days) than we've ever been before, so just stay tuned and in the next day or two I hope to get this post up and maybe some feedback from you (yes, YOU!)
Saturday, April 10, 2010
3:30am
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Friday, April 9, 2010
Sometimes...
...I just want to give up...
...You say and do little things that hurt but I don't say anything...
...You do little things that I notice but don't mention for the sake of not sounding paranoid or being the crazy jealous wife...
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Monday, April 5, 2010
3:20am
Amazingly I trust
More annoyed than scared
Why aren't we on the same wavelength?
Is it age that makes us so different?
Is it male vs female?
Why is it so easy for him
And so hard for me to understand?
Listening to breathing in the dark
Praying that the next few months will bring a conversion
Knowing that it will take more than simply time
Worrying that I'll be too hard - or worse, too soft
Oh baby, how I worry about your daddy
I worry about how we're connecting
Am I doing something wrong?
Or are my expectations simply skewed?
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Tuesday, March 16, 2010
Happy Lemon!
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Friday, March 12, 2010
Letter to my mom
Thank you for being the best mom you could possibly be for me and the kids everyday of our lives. Thank you for your hard work, dedication, and sacrifices which made me the woman that I am today. I thought I understood appreciation but becoming a mother has TRULY opened my eyes.
I love you!
-Mel
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Monday, March 8, 2010
Financial Woes (Part 2)
Last week I gave into the despair that had been looming for quite some time, always quietly threatening to push through my barriers of faith, and I wept tears of fear. I didn't look for words of comfort and direction in my bible as I normally do when I'm down. I ignored my husband's pleas for me to talk to him about what was wrong even when I could see that I was hurting him by pushing him away. I ignored my cousin's words spoken from a place of experience and even her offer for some tangible assistance. Instead, I allowed my fingers to vomit words of anguish and then clicked publish.
The 'reality' that I chose to live by in those hours of depression was an ugly one, but I rolled around in it until its stench was seeping out of every one of my pores. But that doesn't have to be the reality that my husband and I walk in. This weekend I spent some time in the promises of God and have decided that my future doesn't have to be bleak. Yes, I have a few bills, yes my house has normal necessities, and yes, often it does seem that it would be nice if That Dude and I had a little more income to cover some of these costs of living BUT we aren't nearly as bad off as I made it sound. We really are blessed in so many ways. Based on my calculations, we should have enough money coming in over the course of the next few weeks to bring our 'active bills' (e.g., electricity, Internet, cable, phones, etc - as opposed to the older debt) under control, if we make wise choices. We have family members who are willing to help a bit here and there until we're out of the hole. Lastly and most importantly, we have each other and the promises of the Lord that tell us of a brighter future!
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Wednesday, March 3, 2010
Financial Woes
As I lay here in my quiet apartment, all I want to do is cry. Crazy thoughts run through my head: "Maybe all of the naysayers were right." Maybe we rushed into marriage without knowing what we were getting ourselves into." "Maybe we're just not going to be able to successfully pull this off."
No, That Dude and I aren't unhappy with each other. In fact, the love is so thick you can cut through it with a pair of scissors when you're around us! Our issue is money. More bills than we know what to do with and less income than we need to keep us afloat. Ok, that's not totally true, we can afford to pay our monthly bills and rent with our income. The problem is that we're still playing catch-up with the bills that we weren't paying so that we could pay for the wedding. It's so frustrating to have to wait ANOTHER week to go food shopping (we've been lucky in that there is a food pantry at That Dude's job and they've allowed us to bring home a few cans and some dry goods, but it just isn't enough to actually put together meals.) My mom has helped some, but even she doesn't really know how tight things have been for the last few weeks.
I know that I have to trust that God is going to carry us through this and that we'll be fine, but it's tough when I know that I've just sent my husband off to work without eating anything for breakfast and with no lunch money (again).
I do a great job of smiling and pretending that things are fine, but inside I'm struggling to stay afloat. I'm terrified of what our financial future looks like and I just don't know what to do anymore.
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Sunday, January 24, 2010
Tuesday, January 12, 2010
How Soon is "TOO SOON"?
As you can see, we have a slightly different concept of the meaning of the word slow than most people! So of course what was intended to be a serious conversation turned into lots of laughter last night when I said that we should revisit our premarital compromise on how long to wait before trying to have kids. When we first discussed it, I wanted to wait around one calendar year before beginning to try to get pregnant and That Dude (who is slightly younger than I am, and therefore not thinking about babies yet) felt that a more reasonable amount of time to wait would be AT LEAST three to four years. After lots of talking and praying, we finally agreed that we'd wait the one year (with the understanding that it may take us a little while to actually conceive since I had an ovary removed at 18. As we got closer and closer to the wedding though, I began to feel more of a need to wait it out and enjoy each other and he began to think more and more that we should begin sooner than later! Now that we're married though it's not just a thought to ponder, it's a reality that we have to think about every time we (ahem) lay with each other.
Although we know that in the end it's a decision that only we can truly make for ourselves, we've begun to seek advice from people whose opinions we value. Which brings me to you guys. If there is anyone with an opinion on this topic leave me a comment.
Monday, January 11, 2010
Just BECAUSE...
I felt hurt and angry BECAUSE I was trying to surprise him with a dinner that I KNEW he'd love BECAUSE I love him and want to see him happy and I felt unloved BECAUSE I felt like he didn't want to spend time with me.
And he ate it and said it was great but I know he was lying BECAUSE I was eating the same thing and it pretty much sucked.
Sigh...